The conduit between the material and the spiritual world is through emotion. It is highly critical for a person to undergo the necessary development of the emotional apparatus. This allows a person to be more Intune with their authenticity, linking their inner reality with the outer world requires consciousness. The concept of “real men don’t cry” has been misinterpreted and ignorantly defined. It is a part of our biology to shed tears. It has been witnessed that some of the strongest men are not afraid to cry when the body is calling for emoting. It is vulnerability that allows the emotional apparatus to develop and evolve. To be vulnerable means to be in a state of being exposed to an attack or a possible harm. In the right circumstances being vulnerable is amongst the bravest things a man can do.
There are various aspects on why a lot of men don’t express emotions and shy away from being vulnerable. Most reasons can be traced back to the same root problem, the need to choose between authenticity and attachment. The famous author and doctor Gabor Mate, extensively uncovers the essential disconnection that occurs within people at a really young age which results in disconnection with ourselves. It’s been stated before that the opposite of addiction is connection. The highly acclaimed author Dr.Gabor Mate also speaks of how this disconnection results in other manifestations that range from all kinds of physical and mental diseases, which is your body’s way of trying to make you conscious of this disconnection. Being disconnected from our true selves because of early life dysfunction causes dysfunction within us. This causes disease(dis-ease), in other words stress.
A reconnection is required to start the healing journey. The word heal means to become whole, hence, to recover the authenticity that was lost. Stay tuned in as we ensure that our blogs convey meaningful content and a message to our audience as we share our personal experience through a journey of self-discovery. We went from being fragmented, to mending back our authenticity. Welcome toFrag-Mend.